What to Say When Your Kid Asks Where Babies Come From

Parents.com - Amanda Gummer, Ph.D, child psychologist and founder of Dr. Gummer's Good Play Guide, says the first thing to remember is this question can feel far more awkward for adults than kids. Young children "are more likely to just want facts," explains Dr. Gummer. Focusing on the biological process, and framing the topic as a scientific one, is usually sufficient. "For example, you could say that when [parents] love each other very much, they create a special cell that grows into a baby."

Jillian Amodio, LCSW and founder of Moms For Mental Health, agrees, and adds that using proper vocabulary to avoid any misunderstandings is important—even for this very young age group."One thing I recommend is to always name body parts by their actual names beginning from infancy. This gives children the vocabulary they need to talk about their bodies in an empowering way without shame or confusion," explains Amodio.